Since placing the order I have enjoyed an exchange with the supplier which has taught me something about the value of the emoticon in emails. Following confirmation of my order the supplier sent me two advertising emails, simply drawing my attention to his catalogue. This irritated me, as I had only ordered one, and it seemed obvious to me that I would not have a regular need to buy cremation urns. Here is the rest of our exchange::
From me: Please stop sending me these notices. I have purchased one cremation urn from you, and am unlikely to need another until I am put in an urn myself.
From supplier: I'm very sorry--I took you off the list--------Paul
[At which point I thought I had been a bit terse, so ...]
From me: Thanks ~ I'll make a note of your name for my Executors! ;-)
From supplier: Happy New Year !! Paul
Now I am feeling good, and so will put Paul's link here and feel even better. [NB - his site appears to be under construction at the moment.]